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My Naked Truth: Naturism and Sexuality Are Two Sides of the Same Coin
Will writes about the question he gets most: isn't being naked around people about sex? His answer — naturism and sexuality are two sides of the same coin, and naturist etiquette is where the honest middle lives. Includes his Pride plans for Taiwan (Oct 31) and Kaohsiung (Dec 5), where he'll be attending nearly naked but legally covered, plus an open invitation to come say hello.
There's one question I get more than any other. It usually arrives politely, sometimes a little nervous, and it almost always comes down to the same thing: if you're naked around other people, isn't it about sex?
I get it. We grew up in a culture that learned to read bare skin as a single signal. A body without clothes in an advertisement is selling something. A body without clothes in a room full of strangers is supposed to be a scandal. So when someone says, plainly, "I just like being outside without clothes on," the reflex is to go looking for a hidden motive.
Here's my naked truth: naturism and sexuality are two sides of the same coin. Two sides — not the same face.
Same metal, different face
A coin only works because both sides are real. You can't hold the heads without the tails existing somewhere under your thumb. Sexuality is part of being a person with a body. It doesn't switch off when the clothes come off, and I'd be lying if I said nudity has nothing to do with it. Desire, warmth, skin, closeness. All of that is human.
What naturism does is give that fact somewhere to rest instead of somewhere to perform. On a nude beach, nobody is advertising. There's a grandmother swimming laps. Two friends arguing about where to eat. A guy who's been sunburned on the same shoulder for three days straight. Bodies doing ordinary things. Desire has its own time and place, and that place isn't the swimming hole at two in the afternoon.
The other side of the coin never goes away. You just stop flipping it over in the middle of a conversation.
What naturist etiquette taught me about desire
Naturist spaces have a rule that's rarely written down but everyone knows: if you feel aroused, cover up, step away, cool off, and don't make it anyone else's problem. That's manners, not shame. That one habit taught me more about consent than a decade of reading about it.
Look at faces, not bodies. Ask before you photograph anyone. Don't touch. When a space says no, you leave — no debate, no hurt feelings performed for an audience. Simple rules. They hold because everyone keeps them, not because someone's watching.
I've sat in hot springs in Taiwan, saunas in Europe, cold rivers in places I can't pronounce, next to people of every age and shape. What I remember isn't bodies. It's how quiet my head got.
Why I'll be at Pride nearly naked
Taiwan Pride, October 31st. Kaohsiung Pride, December 5th. I'll be there with as little on as the law allows — body paint, straps, whatever keeps it legal and survivable in the heat. Covered, technically. Visible, on purpose.
Pride is one of the few places where different kinds of freedom stand next to each other and don't have to compete. For years I treated naturism and queer community as separate stories. They aren't. Both ask the same question: can I exist in public as I actually am, without being reduced to one thing?
There's something practical in it too. There are naturists who've never been to Pride, and Pride-goers who've never heard of a naked hike. If I stand there with paint on my chest, maybe a few of those people find each other.
If you're in Taipei or Kaohsiung, come say hello. Ask me anything. Take a photo — just ask me first, the same way I'd ask you. And if you can't be there, repost this, share it, send it to the friend who's quietly wondering whether there's a place for them. There is.
Thank you for being here with me on this naked journey. #TaiwanPride #KaohsiungPride #naturism #nudism #bodypositivity
Event details for anyone who wants to find me in person:
Taiwan Pride — Saturday, October 31, Taipei. I'll be in body paint with legal coverage, somewhere in the main march area. Message me that morning and I'll tell you where I'm standing.
Kaohsiung Pride — Saturday, December 5, Kaohsiung. Same deal.
Two ground rules, because they matter: ask before you photograph me, and I'll ask before I photograph you. And read up on local rules before you come — what's legal on a Pride route isn't the same as what's legal on a public beach any other day of the year.
If you're a naturist, a nudist, or just curious and you've never told anyone, this is a good weekend to say hi. Thank you for being here with me on this naked journey.